You know I’ve seen the “is she gay or just an art student” joke but i never thought it would apply to me
I’m not artsy, I promise you’re completely misreading my look
Tag: personal
TODAY’S A DAY TO BE BITTER ABOUT GENDER STUFF I GUESS
I really, really hate it when people make a big deal about misgendering me when I have not corrected them. Like, I don’t care if customers think I’m a dude, but I care a LOT when they change their mind about what I am and treat it like THE WORST THING EVER that I can be mistaken for a boy. Some dude apologized to me like five times today including once halfway shouting from the escalator and it’s like chill dude I don’t feel bad about it until you make me feel bad about it.
I get really annoyed with how in almost everything I see about the bathroom issue, cis women are shown to be the ~accepting good guys~ as if they/we are not the primary policers of who uses the women’s bathroom
like cis men suck don’t get me wrong but cis women are a huge part of the problem too and it’s so disingenuous to pretend otherwise
today was a lot of work and pretty rough at time but it was such a great day for my presentation. the crowd was so great! lots of people complimented my bow tie, and a couple people just kind of yelled that I’m v cute (I think they thought I worked FOR the celebrity, like on his team, rather than the bookstore, which to be fair the aesthetic fits well (my coworker and I took a pic with him and it’s HILARIOUS because we’re all wearing short sleeved blue button downs and have similar haircuts))
And to top it off the girl messaged me that I looked v dapper (it was her first time seeing me in a bow tie) since she forgot to tell me in person
Today I carried a suitcase for a beautiful woman dressed as a princess and it was the greatest moment of my life
now that my raise has kicked in I’m among the most financially stable of my friends and navigating that is weird, especially KNOWING that offering to pay for things can make people uncomfortable when money is tight BUT AT THE SAME TIME IT’S HARD TO NOT BE LIKE HEY I FINALLY HAVE SOME EXTRA MONEY IF YOU WANT TO SEE THIS MOVIE WITH ME I COULD PAY FOR YOUR TICKET. YOU WANNA DO A FUN THING I LOVE FUN THINGS AND CAN FINALLY AFFORD SOME FUN THINGS.
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Ugh landlords
SUCH A JOY
I at least go a prompt response to my reply! Except my main question was “What do you need from a new person to approve them?” and they gave me no information on that, just said that we can sign a new lease once they’re approved, which is exactly what the first email said -_-
On the one hand I want to renew my current lease, but on the other it took our landlord like two weeks and THREE emails to send us the bare minimum response about how to renew
I am tired of myself, and there’s a lot to that but I’m especially tired of the theoretical status of my lesbianism and how I let the fear of/desire for romance effect me so I’m gonna do something about it.
A) I’m giving myself until next Friday (just under two weeks) to find where I stand with the girl, and if she doesn’t like me/I don’t find out, the mooning is done and I move on
B) Assuming she doesn’t like me/I don’t find out, I’m gonna go to a bar and try something casual, because I’m not waiting FOR anything, I’m just waiting and I don’t WANT to anymore
I made myself a heating pad and that’s really quite enough productivity for today
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