TODAY’S A DAY TO BE BITTER ABOUT GENDER STUFF I GUESS
I really, really hate it when people make a big deal about misgendering me when I have not corrected them. Like, I don’t care if customers think I’m a dude, but I care a LOT when they change their mind about what I am and treat it like THE WORST THING EVER that I can be mistaken for a boy. Some dude apologized to me like five times today including once halfway shouting from the escalator and it’s like chill dude I don’t feel bad about it until you make me feel bad about it.