docholligay replied to your post “I had a dream about going to Olive Garden for a date. I know exactly…”

MY POWER GROWS

Soon my subconscious mind will be filled with nothing but your fics
I look forward to the dream where my lady gives me her favor to wear during a track meet (that one line has still ruined my ENTIRE LIFE)

captainsnumple replied to your post “I had a dream about going to Olive Garden for a date. I know exactly…”

I SWEAR TO GOD I’LL VISIT OLIVE GARDEN WHEN I’LL COME TO US

I SECOND DOC ON THIS ONE I TOO WOULD TAKE YOU TO OLIVE GARDEN. YOU WILL KNOW ITS GLORY AND ITS SHAME

captainsnumple replied to your post “Whenever I think about AU’s in which HaruMichi don’t meet and fall in…”

WHY ‘BUT’? No honestly, one can live without dating very long, BELIEVE ME SAM (I actually think I would have lived until now if I wasn’t stupid enough to put my ass into things I’d better hve avoided, SOOOO)

This is all absolutely true! I just see Haruka as someone who wants to pursue romance/find a partner, so I think she’d TRY dating

dreamshapers-universe replied to your post “Whenever I think about AU’s in which HaruMichi don’t meet and fall in…”

I like to imagine Haruka as having her first kiss (and first anything else, really) with Michiru, no matter if they are teens or not… or, perhaps, the farthest she got with another girl being an awkward good-night-smooch after a date the girl initiated cause haruka would never dare to.

I LIKE THIS A LOT. It works well with the idea I have growing that Haruka might have trouble getting further than a second date. ESPECIALLY if there’s some expectation for Haruka to be the one making moves

captainsnumple replied to your post “docholligay replied to your post “wow I am terrible at this whole…”

MY DEAR PRECIOUS SAM I’M ALL FOR ASKING TOO. I MEAN PEOPLE ARE USUALLY DISTRACTED WITH ALL THE STUFF THHAT"S HAPPENING AROUND IT’S SO EASY TO MISS NICE THINGS EVEN IF YOU WANT THEM. I mean I support you to do what you feel will be right to do BUT YOU’RE SO GOOD YOU DESERVE ALL THE NICE THINGS ALLOW YOURSELF NICE THINGS

docholligay replied to your post “docholligay replied to your post “wow I am terrible at this whole…”

YOU KNOW I BELIEVE IN ASKING

THANKS ❤ ❤ I think maybe I really should, I’m ready to move on if we’re going to be just friends (I hate saying just friends, I am HAPPY to be her friend, but YOU KNOW)

ANY ADVICE? My main misgivings are worrying it might be too soon and a second thing I’m putting under a cut to hopefully not be read by anyone who knows me in real life

she’s actually a coworker (not in any departments I work in, but same store), and I’ve talked around that because another coworker follows me, and it feels weird to be hopeful about a crush to someone who knows her (although at this point there is zero chance they don’t know exactly who she is, there’s no way I posted about someone ELSE who got back from Europe that day so this doesn’t need to be under a cut BUT IT IS ANYWAY just in case) (hey there if you happen to read this by accident or whatever, you’re really cool I hope none of these posts have weirded you out)

but anyway sometimes I feel skeevy because we met at work and hitting on people at work is gross so idk if maybe I should actually drop it?

(it’s not against the rules to date coworkers, just people in your department (I think) or anyone you have authority over. we’ve had couples in the store before) (the issue is 100% a moral one because I don’t want her to be uncomfortable at work or anything.) (The other thing is she’s looking for a new job so maybe I should wait? but that would feel weird too, like pouncing the moment an obstacle is gone)

(ALSO. if any of you have been around and happen to remember random ass posts from September, she is in fact that coworker I had a crush on who’s first line to me was like “so I see you back there in nook all the time.” I deleted that post somewhere along the way but I have the emails from replies and i’ve really wanted to mention that in case anyone remembered)

crystalxizzle replied to your post “Oh[[MOR] I had a good time today, but I also really, really didn’t….”

It’s not nothing. It’s okay to feel upset about that! You shouldn’t feel like your gender is invalidated, by anyone! I don’t know if I’m in the right ballpark here, but if you’re feeling a little bad or guilty about your crush now, remember that not everyone’s perfect. I know I still have plenty of room to grow on gender issues. That’s one of the reasons why I’m so lucky to have you as a friend to help me be better! And I’m pretty sure you can help her be better too!

Thanks Alice ❤ I’m going to try talking to her about it directly, because part of the problem might be that gender stuff still seems pretty abstract to her. It’s hard to learn everything (I’m still learning too!) so I’m hoping if I’m like, hey this upsets me for these reasons it’ll start being more real and clear for her. (I don’t know how much the person she misgenders most has talked to her about it, so I’m hopeful that maybe it’s that they’ve only mentioned it in passing and she just needs to have some open conversations for it to click)

(Also never be sorry for saying things like this I’m so so lucky to have you as a friend I love you)

paksenarrion-reader replied to your post “Oh[[MOR] I had a good time today, but I also really, really didn’t….”

adding to the hugs, since I don’t have anything useful to say

spaceloveandrobots replied to your post “Oh[[MOR] I had a good time today, but I also really, really didn’t….”

(huuuug)

Thank you both ❤

crystalxizzle
replied to your post “@docholligay and anyone else interested, here’s a link to the photos…”

You are the greatest Sam ❤ So cute!!

Ahaha Thank you! ❤

captainsnumple replied to your post “@docholligay and anyone else interested, here’s a link to the photos…”

SAM YOU LOOK AMAZING and you’re so charming omg I mean I know it but your photos RADIATE WITH SWEETNESS

OH SNUMPLE. THANK YOU AHH

docholligay replied to your post “@docholligay and anyone else interested, here’s a link to the photos…”

jill says you have a great sense of style

I HAVE PLEASED THE BUTCH MOM I AM SO HAPPY

docholligay replied to your post “@docholligay and anyone else interested, here’s a link to the photos…”

Sam, me and jill just sat here awwing over you OUR PRECIOUS DAUGHTER

My straight mom did the same thing ahaha

paksenarrion-reader replied to your post “She’s in
The same
Country as me
😀 :D”

Sam it is too pure
too good for this world when you
like a girl so much

I LIKE HER SO MUCH. SO SO MUCH. 

flibbityflob replied to your post “She’s in
The same
Country as me
😀 :D”

this is the cutest gayest thing I’ve seen all day I cannot stop grinning

Maybe I should tell you I was singing this to myself at work while I was setting up the stage for our event last night.

I am, quite possibly, too gay

paksenarrion-reader replied to your post “[[MOR] GUYS the girl is flying back today! I’ll probs message her…”

this is so adorable 😀 I’m cheering you on! Things are gonna be good!

dreamshapers-universe replied to your post “[[MOR] GUYS the girl is flying back today! I’ll probs message her…”

1) This is so precious 2) Hit her up! 3) It’s gonna be all fine, no, it’s gonna be AWESOME!

captainsnumple replied to your post “[[MOR] GUYS the girl is flying back today! I’ll probs message her…”

YOU PRECIOUS OVERWHELMED ROLL

femmerosa replied to your post “[[MOR] GUYS the girl is flying back today! I’ll probs message her…”

i hope it goes well, that’s so exciting!

THANK YOU ALL ❤ ❤

captainsnumple replied to your post “[[MOR] GUYS the girl is flying back today! I’ll probs message her…”

SEEMS MY FAVORITE ROMCOM GETS A NEW EP

THIS MADE ME LAUGH

Dork Romance has been on hiatus BUT STAY TUNED LATER THIS WEEK FOR SEASON TWO. Will I ever successfully execute an Arm Touch? How will she react to finding out I’ve never kissed a girl? Will she dance with me if I take her to a lesbian bar? Will any of these questions actually be answered? KEEP WATCHING TO FIND OUT.

docholligay replied to your post “I laugh about the fragile masculinity of cis men as much as the next…”

ha, I had a lot to add about this and the cachet of the masculine as superior within afab lbpt commnites but that seems not to be the conversation we’re having here, so I AM SORRY YOU DIDN’T GET YOUR SHIRT SAM YOU LOOKED LOVELY.

Thank you Doc but also I’m always open to having that conversation

dreamshapers-universe replied to your post “I laugh about the fragile masculinity of cis men as much as the next…”

That guy really should have known better… -.- some people

crystalxizzle replied to your post “I laugh about the fragile masculinity of cis men as much as the next…”

Ugh, that sounds awful. And at pride of all places! 😦

I fee like a baby but it was Pride where in theory I should feel valid more than in the world at large SO

captainsnumple replied to your post “Imagine. Early in their courtship, Michiru is trying to do some…”

Also I like reread your post like 5 times trying to comprehend why THE HELL Michiru suddenly decided to make fishing her next hobby because it’s so unlike Michiru maybe it was like Haruka’s fav activiy and Michiru was trying to bring them together AND OKAY IF SO WHAT DOES FISHERY HAVE TO DO WITH TYPES OF WOMEN

It’s an idiom! I used it without thinking, sorry. Fishing is trying to get specific information, usually indirectly (in this context, Michiru WANTS to know if Haruka might like her, but asks about what types of women she generally likes instead)