docholligay replied to your post “captainsnumple replied to your photo “WOULD THAT SHE WERE but she’s…”

i get literally so annoyed when anyone comments on my body at all, for reasons like this

An easy guide to commenting on someone’s body or eating habits: Don’t

Certain “positive” comments bother me more than negative ones, just because it’s like, heyyyy I work hard to place value on things that are not my size, sometimes it doesn’t work so please do not feed that particular beast 
Outright negativity makes it easier to say fuck them and omve on

captainsnumple replied to your post “captainsnumple replied to your photo “WOULD THAT SHE WERE but she’s…”

You have a right to be LITERALLY WHATEVER about your own life YOU ARE AWESOME AND YOU WILL HANDLE THINGS PERFECTLY WITHOUT RUDE COWORKERS I’M SURE

THANK YOU SNUMPLE I LOVE YOU

paksenarrion-reader replied to your post “captainsnumple replied to your photo “WOULD THAT SHE WERE but she’s…”

JESUS CHRIST HOW IS SEVEN YEARS OF THAT NOT A PROBLEM

COMING FROM A CERTIFIED WALKING PROBLEM: YOU HAVE ALL THE RIGHT TO CONVEY ‘YES HELLO THIS IS NONE OF YA BUSINESS AND CONSIDER FUCKING OFF’ TO PEOPLE

IT WAS A PROBLEM IT JUST WASN’T AS MUCH OF A PROBLEM AS OTHER PEOPLE I’VE KNOWN HAVE HAD. It wasn’t an eating disorder so I don’t like giving it any importance, though I recognize it was unhealthy (especially when I started, I was 13.) (I have lasting anger with my parents for a lot of things, and them encouraging that is a big one)

AND THANK YOU I WILL TRY. I can be REALLY GREAT at telling people to fuck off, but I’m much better at doing it for someone else’s sake than my own. 

captainsnumple replied to your photo “WOULD THAT SHE WERE but she’s like… The least Michiru person I know….”

I’M PRETTY SURE YOU KNOW YOURSELF WHAT’S BAD AND GOOD FOR YOU WHAT’S WRONG WITH YOUR COWORKER

THANK YOU SNUMPS. I always feel like I’m more of a sensitive baby than I have a right to be over stuff like this, because I never had a REAL problem, but it does send me reeling sometimes because I counted calories for like… seven years and in high school my entire self worth was tied to my weight and my grades SO I APPRECIATE PEOPLE NOT COMMENTING ON WHAT I EAT. IT’S ONE OF MY BIGGEST PET PEEVES.

But I just… stopped talking to her so she got the hint and left me alone at least. AND I DRANK MY WONDERFULLY BAD FOR ME DRINK AND IT WAS GOOD.