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captainsnumple replied to your post “docholligay replied to your post “wow I am terrible at this whole…”

MY DEAR PRECIOUS SAM I’M ALL FOR ASKING TOO. I MEAN PEOPLE ARE USUALLY DISTRACTED WITH ALL THE STUFF THHAT"S HAPPENING AROUND IT’S SO EASY TO MISS NICE THINGS EVEN IF YOU WANT THEM. I mean I support you to do what you feel will be right to do BUT YOU’RE SO GOOD YOU DESERVE ALL THE NICE THINGS ALLOW YOURSELF NICE THINGS

docholligay replied to your post “docholligay replied to your post “wow I am terrible at this whole…”

YOU KNOW I BELIEVE IN ASKING

THANKS ❤ ❤ I think maybe I really should, I’m ready to move on if we’re going to be just friends (I hate saying just friends, I am HAPPY to be her friend, but YOU KNOW)

ANY ADVICE? My main misgivings are worrying it might be too soon and a second thing I’m putting under a cut to hopefully not be read by anyone who knows me in real life

she’s actually a coworker (not in any departments I work in, but same store), and I’ve talked around that because another coworker follows me, and it feels weird to be hopeful about a crush to someone who knows her (although at this point there is zero chance they don’t know exactly who she is, there’s no way I posted about someone ELSE who got back from Europe that day so this doesn’t need to be under a cut BUT IT IS ANYWAY just in case) (hey there if you happen to read this by accident or whatever, you’re really cool I hope none of these posts have weirded you out)

but anyway sometimes I feel skeevy because we met at work and hitting on people at work is gross so idk if maybe I should actually drop it?

(it’s not against the rules to date coworkers, just people in your department (I think) or anyone you have authority over. we’ve had couples in the store before) (the issue is 100% a moral one because I don’t want her to be uncomfortable at work or anything.) (The other thing is she’s looking for a new job so maybe I should wait? but that would feel weird too, like pouncing the moment an obstacle is gone)

(ALSO. if any of you have been around and happen to remember random ass posts from September, she is in fact that coworker I had a crush on who’s first line to me was like “so I see you back there in nook all the time.” I deleted that post somewhere along the way but I have the emails from replies and i’ve really wanted to mention that in case anyone remembered)