New butch meme. Butches reblog with:
1. When, if ever, was the first time you thought you might like to wear “boy” clothing/”menswear”
2. When did you begin to think of yourself as butch, even tentatively
3. What was the first piece of “butch” clothing you bought for yourself
Tag: personal

*gay screaming* IM SO IN LOVE

My fiancée took me to a sailor moon r showing and nerdery ensued
You know you’ve found the one when they eat the broccoli off your plate for you when no one’s looking
Man I’m trying to switch banks because my old bank is Michigan based and therefore inconvenient and also keeps freezing my atm card but I have no idea what I’m doing
I see I can apply online but idk if it would be better/faster in person? There’s not clear info on how I’d get checks/cards if I do it online
My dad’s Christmas letter this year says “Sam has an interesting job, or at least she meets some interesting people” and I can’t decide if it’s meant to be a dig or not
My fiancee wanting a Christmas tree would have been the cutest thing, except the real cutest thing was that since she’s never had one and is also a city girl, she didn’t know about sap and how sticky it is so she was EXTRA AMUSED by her puns about me being sappy when I handled our tree.
I’m not articulate at this hour but sometimes (like right now, before work) I get really emotional about dumb stuff being understood??
Like when I read Fruits Basket in high school I was so taken with the thing of “When snow melts what does it become? Spring” because there’s so much in both the sentiment and the word play that was exactly what I needed, and I remember trying to explain it to my best friend at the time and being told it was wrong and stupid (she was… a very literal person, I’d say). But then a little while ago I mentioned it to my fiancee, because even though I haven’t read the series for years that one line sticks with me, and she, knowing nothing about the series, was just like “that’s really beautiful” and this wasn’t even that recent but I’m just thinking about it and feel a lot of things.
It’s good I’m not with my fiancee this Thanksgiving, because her family is apparently asking about our sex life and I’m combative enough that I’d give honest answers to get them to back off
this is kind of horrible but I’ve always wished I had a friend who had a family situation similar to mine so I had someone to be with on holidays and celebrate/not celebrate with on our own terms