crystalxizzle replied to your post “Oh[[MOR] I had a good time today, but I also really, really didn’t….”
It’s not nothing. It’s okay to feel upset about that! You shouldn’t feel like your gender is invalidated, by anyone! I don’t know if I’m in the right ballpark here, but if you’re feeling a little bad or guilty about your crush now, remember that not everyone’s perfect. I know I still have plenty of room to grow on gender issues. That’s one of the reasons why I’m so lucky to have you as a friend to help me be better! And I’m pretty sure you can help her be better too!
Thanks Alice ❤ I’m going to try talking to her about it directly, because part of the problem might be that gender stuff still seems pretty abstract to her. It’s hard to learn everything (I’m still learning too!) so I’m hoping if I’m like, hey this upsets me for these reasons it’ll start being more real and clear for her. (I don’t know how much the person she misgenders most has talked to her about it, so I’m hopeful that maybe it’s that they’ve only mentioned it in passing and she just needs to have some open conversations for it to click)
(Also never be sorry for saying things like this I’m so so lucky to have you as a friend I love you)
paksenarrion-reader replied to your post “Oh[[MOR] I had a good time today, but I also really, really didn’t….”
adding to the hugs, since I don’t have anything useful to say
spaceloveandrobots replied to your post “Oh[[MOR] I had a good time today, but I also really, really didn’t….”
(huuuug)
Thank you both ❤