Tag: OR

so my mom and I were talking about me being gay, which is still a common subject for us. and she tries, I know she does, but today she still, still after me trying to explain how I work so much, asks but what if I was “with” a woman and didn’t like it. and I’ve dated men so…
and it’s incredibly frustrating because I know she’s trying butwhyyyy is having sex always needed before my identity is real? Like she wouldn’t accept when I thought I was ace either because I hadn’t tried sex yet and now it’s just like no you don’t understand I’m still less interested in sex than most people but now I actually feel that attraction to people (well, women) and that’s not going away if I don’t like sex (and ffs my first time is probably going to be bad first times are bad that doesn’t mean I actually secretly am straight)