The big update post, although I realized I can’t disclose everything on here yet (in a rl friends can’t find out through tumblr sort of way, not a ~secret~ way~)

My girlfriend and I are really serious (and also, because I discussed more things with some of you privately, now monogamous). I went to Connecticut with her. I’ve met and had dinner with each of her parents (her mom really likes me, thank god). We spent all the time we could together before she went back to school.

And I’m truly, deeply in love with her.

(It’s fast, but not rushed. A million things aligned not only for us to meet but for us to meet at the right time. I didn’t believe in the “sometimes you meet someone and just KNOW” stuff, but now I do. You’re all going to have concerns and questions and I get it. It’s unbelievable.)