okay I’m gonna get back to the fandom posts we’re all here for soon, but I’m still stupid emotional because I’ve been afraid about the girl finding out certain things about me, namely that I bind and had a big questioning phase. But it came up yesterday and she took it better than I could have hoped, we’re clear on me being a woman and she doesn’t think it’s weird (she’s thought about trying it herself). IT’S SILLY TO BE SO RELIEVED, ESPECIALLY SINCE BINDING IS A PRETTY NOTICEABLE THING, BUT I AM.