This has been on my mind for a while, and with current events it seems like as good a time as any to say it— believing victims means believing them even when they say things about people who are good about other things— specifically, I mean people who are great about LGBTQ stuff. People who use the right pronouns for you or who are respectful of your orientation can still harass and assault others. One behavior does not immediately classify them as good and faultless.