awesomefrauellauniverse replied to your post “.”

Didn’t you say you were on good terms with your in-laws? Or am I mixing things up?

It’s a little complicated! Generally, we get on okay. My mother in law let us live with her for a few months while we sorted out moving, and generally they both like me pretty well. My father in law, though, can be very controlling, especially in regards to money, and he doesn’t really believe in mental health stuff. So it’s a hugely good thing he’s handing it over to us, even though he definitely did it to try and make us flounder and admit he should help make our decisions.

madegeeky replied to your post “.”

Ugh, I’m so sorry. I’m so glad you have the ability to say no to him.

Thanks Geeky! It’s one reason I’m really glad we moved, my wife is much better at standing up to him at a distance. And now he’ll have even less leverage!

(I have asked if I can tell him that we might as well get my wife on my cell phone plan instead of his now too, do it full measure, but for SOME reason, my wife thinks I’d be too sassy about it. I would be, but hey, he started it.)