@docholligay ahaha I did a reply post but then I saw there was more, so, I AGREE WITH ALL OF THIS especially the last point, which bothers me extra since my partner came out as nb but doesn’t get they/them’d NEARLY as much by strangers because they still dress feminine a lot of the time.
And he/him or sir bothers me so much less most of the time because it’s usually just a mistake, not a conscious decision.