docholligay replied to your post “[[MOR] I get really annoyed with how in almost everything I see…”
also trans women and gnc women are pretty much who these bills and
policies affect–it’s sad but true that sometimes my wife feels safer
using the men’s room even though it doesn’t watch her identity, beacuse
it’s ‘safer’ for her to be a man
yeah, my main issue with the focus on gnc women is that it’s the ONLY thing I’ve seen people respond to, like “look it’s hurting cis women! oh no!” or else like “haha they’re hurting the people they claim to want to protect”
also I get bristly because there isn’t that safe option for trans women, they’re not safe using the men’s room and I feel like that gets glossed over a lot in favor of “denying their identity makes people sad” stuff (which is also valid and important but I don’t see the safety issue acknowledged much, probs because no one wants to admit they’re putting people in very real danger)