man every time I spend time with this friend I feel so much more on the non binary side because they just GET so much and they’re basically the only irl friend who does, and my gender just feels more similar to theirs than any woman I know.

and like it’s still more relevant to me to identify as a woman but like damn does it feel like the difference is semantics than anything else

(it doesn’t help that since I don’t see them often they missed my switch back to using she pronouns and like, now it’s a weird thing where I don’t think they know how I identify but they know my identity better than most people who do)